Make a small visitor plan for the first weeks

Decide the rules before the doorbell rings.

Start with the real routine

Set visit lengths, handwashing expectations, photo boundaries, and whether guests should bring food, run an errand, or simply keep visits short. New families often need practical help more than long holding sessions.

Keep the system safe and simple

Protect feeding, recovery, and sleep. A visitor plan is not rude; it is a way to keep the household stable during a demanding transition.

Make it easy to reset

Share the plan in simple language. Clear expectations reduce awkward conversations when everyone is tired.